The reason this blog is called “His Pleasant Place” is because of Psalm 16: 5-6. It is our hearts’ desire that our home would be Ben/Ryan’s “pleasant place”.
Wednesday, August 12, 2026
FUN IN THE SUN: SUMMER 2026
Thursday, July 9, 2026
THE RETURN OF CRAZY BALL
This video was made during our week at
Indian Trails Campground with the whole gang.
Thursday, June 25, 2026
OUR SUMMER START
One thing I have noticed so far this summer is the boys are much more independent in terms of keeping themselves busy. I don't need to constantly be coming up with activities with them.
I also, for the most part, don't need to have them within eyesight all the time. This is a great improvement from the past few summers!
It's the reason we decided not to do respite care this summer because I feel like I don't have them underfoot 24/7. They are teens now and like to hang out in their rooms.
I am trying to do school with them everyday for about an hour. And there's the pool for swimming which they still enjoy. We also have a ton of camping scheduled so that fills a lot of our summer days. They will also attend a day camp for kiddos with special needs for one week in July.
So here's our summer so far:
EARLY BIRTHDAY and ACTUAL BIRTHDAY FOR BEN
If you have ever been around Ben for more than five minutes, one of the things he will most likely tell you is it is his birthday. Any day of the year is Ben's birthday according to him.
This year, he experienced a "Boy Who Cried Wolf" situation though. His birthday was on Sunday, and when he told people at church, they didn't believe him because he always says it's his birthday. Unfortunately, I'm not sure the moral of that story really impacted him.
Anyway, his teacher at school decided to celebrate his birthday early at school since Ben's birthday if mid-June, after school is out for the year.
He had a great celebration with water gun fights outside and a present of an Incredible Hulk Book.
Then for his real birthday, we co-celebrated with Father's Day and attended a quincenero for one of the boys' classmates. So Ben had a GREAT day. And he got an Incredible Hulk Tshirt, book, and pencils!
It's hard to believe Ben is sixteen years old. Where has the time gone...
2026 Job Olympics
The boys partipated in the Job Olympics this spring.
Jonah won 1st in the laundry sorting event.
Ben won 3rd in the recycling sorting event.
They completed as a team in the sandwich making event.
What a great day for them!
They were both so proud of their medals.
Thursday, May 21, 2026
ANOTHER COLLEGE GRADUATE!
Our Lydia graduated from college this past Sunday.
We are so proud of all her hardwork and determination. We are excited to see where life takes her.
For the next few months, she will be a ranger at one of the state parks- congrats on that also!
Lydia doesn't like photos of her on this blog, but this one is safe because you can hardly see her. But it's proof she crossed the stage- haha!
CHOIR CONCERT WITHOUT NEEDING AN AIDE TO HELP!
The boys had their spring choir concert. Because of scheduling difficulties, the school could not provide an aide for them. Other years, they've had a school aide help them get on/off the stage and even stand with them up on the risers during the performance.
I volunteered to sit in the row behind them in case an emergency came up, but the plan was their fellow choir students would assist them on/off the stage.
It worked perfectly! Ben needed no assistance at all. Jonah needed a prompt when it was time to leave the stage. And during one song, he started to struggle with staying standing. Jonah gets very scared when he is "up high"- being on stage looking down at the crowd. He started to get scared. I was thinking I would have to go up on stage to help him when his classmate told him to just sit down on the riser. Jonah followed this direction and finished the song sitting down.
How great it is to watch the boys' peers come around and support our guys without giving it a second thought!
That is Down Syndrome awareness in practice, not just in theory. The kids at school are learning and aware of the boys differences, but then also learning that inclusion can happen despite those differences. That's beautiful to watch!
It was proud evening to watch our boys and their fellow choir members!
And shout out to the school staff who have created this environment. We greatly appreciate it.
Sunday, May 3, 2026
JONAH'S CAMPER TOUR
Unknown to us, Jonah took the Ipad into our camper to record a video tour of our camper. If you watch the video of a real tour of a camper, you can see he closely copies the real one. I think a camper company would be wise to hire our guy! He's awfully cute :)
Monday, April 27, 2026
STATE SOLO AND ENSEMBLE
The boys are in the high school choir.
This choir won a first place at STATE Solo and Ensemble this weekend!
What a joy to watch the boys participate with their peers. It is so encouraging to see their fellow choir members include the guys and help and guide them without even a second thought.
We are so thankful for the choir director making an environment where this could happen.
It was a fun and proud moment to see our boys on a college campus and then singing their way to first place with the choir!
Saturday, March 21, 2026
World Down Syndrome Day 2026
Today, 3-21-26, we celebrated World Down Syndrome Day! Actually the boys wore their Tshirts to school yesterday to help promote Down Syndrome awareness so it's been a 2 day celebration.
Helping the general public understand and feel comfortable around individuals with Down syndrome is a win-win. It brings joys to our kiddos to feel included and accepted, and we believe others are blessed when they interact with individuals who have an extra zest for life!
Here are some great photos showing what our boys have been doing at school this week.
Jonah and Ben went shopping at our village supermarket for classroom snacks. Here Jonah is comparing produce prices.
Friday, February 20, 2026
VERY GOOD FUNCLES AND LOOKING FORWARD TO SPRING!
Definition of Funcle: like a regular uncle only more fun.
Doesn't that sound like our dynamic duo?
Seriously, the boys are really good uncles to their nephew, especially Ben. Ben knows how to talk and play with Baby J. He is very appropriate with his volume level and is very gentle and careful with the baby.
Jonah struggles in these areas, but his love for the baby is still strong! This past week, Jonah really enjoyed Baby J because we were able to have the baby on my lap at the piano and Jonah playing his guitar. Jonah's dream of Baby J being a member of our family band is coming true!
I love these photos. Baby J is army-crawling now so he is getting into people's space. The boys were watching their after school show, and the little guy came over to visit them. I love how Ben interacts with him so sweetly. A side of Ben we don't always see.
In regards to looking forward to the spring, we have some cool things happening.
1. Water park hotel night as our spring break! The boys are so excited to spend the night away. My hope is to relax in the lazy river...
2. Job Olympics: the boys will be participating for the first time both for themselves, and I believe the first time for our school district. We are very excited for them to be able to have this opportunity. Our school district is amazing!!!!
Monday, January 12, 2026
IT'S BEEN A WHILE!
No news is good news is the theory, and that's actually been our reality.
I haven't posted for quite a bit because things have been running relatively smoothly with the boys. School is going great, and they are healthy!
Ben's dental surgery happened on 1-5, and it went very smoothly. The mystery is somewhat solved as to why Ben all of a sudden got infection in his gums when he's always had great dental checkups. The dentist thinks the 3 baby teeth that were refusing to come out were causing a great place for bacteria to build up. Now that these 3 teeth have been pulled, she is very hopeful Ben's gums will get back to their usual healthy again. That was a relief to hear.
Special Olympics basketball starts up this week. A big commitment each week but well worth the opportunity for the boys to exercise and have fun with their friends.
Thursday, December 4, 2025
IT'S BEGINNING TO LOOK A LOT LIKE CHRISTMAS
Friday, November 7, 2025
HEALTHY HEART CHECK!
The cardiologist also has no concerns for Ben’s upcoming dental surgery regarding the anesthesia.
Ben was nervous for the appointment, but he did great!!!
Friday, October 31, 2025
IT'S FALL Y'ALL
SCHOOL DAYS
Here's what freshman year looks like so far! The boys are focusing on academic, social, life, and job skills.





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