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Monday, February 12, 2024

TONSILLECTOMY AND TV


How would a parent survive his child's tonsillectomy without TV?

No, seriously, TV/screen time has been an amazing help for Jonah (and me) this past week in dealing with his pain and discomfort after his tonsil surgery last Monday.  

TV/screen time and music has always been a great distractor for Jonah.  If he is upset or angry about something, usually offering a YouTube song or video or watching a show on TV helps calm him down or redirect his emotions to a happy place.  

So this past week, all TV/screen time limits have been thrown out the window!  It will probably be hard to wean him of this unlimited viewing, but we will cross that bridge when he is fully recovered.

Fortunately, Jonah has pretty good viewing tastes so I have enjoyed many good movies and Beatles documentaries while cuddling on the sofa with him!

Over the years of dealing with Jonah and his ailments, I have finally developed a reliable pain scale to know how uncomfortable Jonah is.

1. No pain/baseline healthy: if you tell Jonah it's time to be done with TV/screen time, he very easily gives it up and moves on to another activity.

2. Mild discomfort/pain: Jonah puts up more of a fuss when it's time to turn things off, but after a few minutes, he moves on to something else.

3. Moderate discomfort: Jonah will be complaining of pain, but then once he gets to have TV/screen time, he stops complaining.  However, if you try to turn off the screen, he starts to moan and groan in pain again.  

4. Severe discomfort: Jonah will continue to moan and groan even while watching something.  Or if it's really bad, he will refuse the TV/screen time.

And at each of Jonah's pain levels, he wants/demands to be cuddled.  He wants someone right next to him most of the time.  

Not very scientific, I know, but this is one way to help me guage what Jonah is feeling in terms of pain.  

Interestingly enough, here is Ben's pain scale.  Keep in mind though, Ben is rarely sick even with just little stuff like colds/flu, and we have never, thankfully, had any serious health issues with Ben.  So I'm not drawing from as much data as I have with Jonah.

1. No pain/baseline healthy: As mentioned in the previous post, Ben's usual demeanor is somewhat gruff and grumpy with a little bit of sweetness tossed in every once in a while.

2. Mild to moderate discomfort: Ben gets weepy and points to his head and indicates he's tired.  He appreciates kind words of comfort and is sometimes open to being cuddled but usually resists. 

3. Moderate discomfort: Ben will act very gross and seem like he is purposely trying to infect others with his illness-drooling, wiping his wet fingers over every surface he can touch, licking surfaces or our arms/hands.  He also can be very naughty and sneaky.  It's like he's trying to push you away from trying to help or comfort him.

4. Moderate to a little more discomfort: Ben will hide and act very scared if you discover he doesn't feel good, almost like he is afraid you will get angry at him for being sick.

I think this very unique pain scale for Ben is the result of 6 years of self-soothing when he was sick or uncomfortable.  I'm guessing if he was sick in his orphanage room, he was probably confined to his bed so he wouldn't infect the other kids or the workers.  And probably, the workers didn't appreciate having to do extra work or pay extra attention to a sick kiddo because they were busy enough trying to take care of a room full of kids with special needs-some very severe.  And from what we saw, Ben was one of the higher functioning kids in his group so that in itself meant he got less attention because he didn't need as much help.  So Ben has always been on his own for the most part, whether he was healthy or sick.   


THE SWEETNESS OF BEN


Anyone who is around Ben for any significant amount of time picks up pretty quickly the kid loves sweets.  There isn't a cookie, candy, donut, cake, or ice cream the kid doesn't enjoy!  Before anyone gets ready to pounce on me as a parent, we do keep his consumption of sweets to a minimum unless we need to really bribe him up good- haha.  No seriously, the kid is a healthy weight and has healthy teeth so his love of sugar doesn't seem to be hurting him at this point yet.  

So yes, Ben loves to eat sweets.

However, anyone who is around Ben for any significant amount of time would also pick up pretty quickly that the kid likes to "lay in the weeds" in regards to acting sweet.  Ben's go-to behavior is usually more rough and gruff in nature.  He is happy, but he often presents kinda mad, with a loud/growly voice, and he likes to give directions/commands- haha.  

But every so often, Ben relaxes and lets you see his sweet side.  And boy, is the reward great when you get to see and experience the sweetness of Ben.  What a cute adorable little soul hides behind all that rough and tough exterior.  When Ben acts sweet, I now realize and so greatly appreciate the amount of courage it takes him to let down his defenses and become vulnerable in showing his emotions to people around him.   

This past Friday I got to witness the sweetness of Ben in such a Ben way.   

Every month, students at our school get to spend their good behavior tickets at the Rocket Shop- basically a teacher-stocked garage sale.  The boys have come home with many items over the years, all items which for the most part they each have kept for himself.  

This Friday, I picked up Ben and brought him home from school as usual.  He rarely says much about his day unless I prompt him to tell me about it.  Today he had no "exciting" news to report, but again, that is pretty usual.  We got home and started our afterschool routine.  Jonah has been home from school all week because of his tonsilectomy on Monday.  After Ben had been home a few minutes, he went to his backpack to get something out: a pink stuffed animal unicorn- kind of weird looking/very girly but very soft.  Then I watched him walk over to Jonah who was laying on the sofa and in Ben's typical growly voice he annouced, "Here Paul/Jonah sick." (remember Jonah's 2nd identity these days is Paul McCartney).  Then he throws the unicorn at Jonah and walks away.  This interaction translated in "Ben Speak" is Ben giving a gift to Jonah.   

The monumentalism (is this a word?) of this overtook me.  Ben used his hard-earned Rocket tickets to get an item not for himself but for his brother.  And Ben really thought it through to get an item that could be comforting because his brother is sick.  

The humor yet reality of who Ben is also struck me in this moment- it wasn't a warm fuzzy interaction of Ben talking sweetly and softly to his brother and declaring his love as he presented the gift.  He basically yelled at Jonah and threw something at him.  

But I knew, this was Ben's sweetness so uniquely revealed by our big guy who had such a lonely life for his first 6 years.  This is Ben realizing that he has a brother who he loves and cares about and wants to help make him feel better after having surgery earlier that week.  This is a Ben powering through all his feelings of jealousy because that brother has been ableo to stay home from school all week and is getting extra attention from everyone.  

This is the sweetness of Ben.  What a privilege and honor to be able to observe.  

The added bonus of all this is Jonah has actually attached to this unicorn.  Jonah has never attached to any stuffed animal before.  But this pink girly weird looking thing he is cuddling with and pressing against his face when his throat is really hurting.  I guess Ben really knew what his little brother needed.

Never underestimate these guys! 





Wednesday, February 7, 2024

DONE AND HOME

Jonah's tonsils are history- surgery was on Monday, and he came home Tuesday afternoon.  He had some dips in oxygen during his sleep and needed 02 for about a half-hour early Tuesday morning, but by Tuesday noon, doctor said he was good to go home!  

Now that we are home, we are working on keeping up with the doses of Advil/Tylenol and to make sure Jonah isn't too active.  It's a good sign he wants to be up and about, but we have to make sure he doesn't overdo it.  

Jonah in his Pre-Op room

Jonah after surgery up in his room.  His color and breathing were great!  Relief!

During surgery, the ENT did a nasal endoscopy to see if there were any other issues that might be contributing to Jonah's severe sleep apnea.  He discovered 2 things:

1. The back of Jonah's tongue falls back when Jonah sleeps.  Hopefully with the tonsils out, Jonah's tongue will start to "behave".  Another sleep study in a few months will determine how the tongue is working without tonsils.  Otherwise, when Jonah is a bit older, there is the possibility of a sensor that can be placed in the back of his throat that would help stimulant those muscles to keep the throat in place (similar to how a pacemaker works with the heart).  Right now this surgery is only approved for people 16 years and older.

2. Jonah has unilateral choanal atresia- blockage of his right nostril.  The ENT was very surprised to find this condition.  He doesn't see it very often.  The blockage can be made completely of bone or a combination of bone and soft tissue.  A CT scan is needed to determine the severity of the blockage.  It is a congenital condition which means it is something that did not form correctly in utero.  It is rare, 1 in 7000 births.  Whether this needs to be repaired by surgery will be determined by the CT scan and if there is any improvement when Jonah has another sleep study in a few months.  Since it only affects one nostril, it is possible Jonah would not need to have this fixed if removing the tonsils reduces his sleep apnea.  

Click HERE for article explaining Choanal Atresia  

Click HERE for another article


At home, for whatever reason, Jonah feels better with a 
pair of CLEAN underwear on his head!







Monday, February 5, 2024

GETTING READY FOR SURGERY


If someone woke you up at 3 am and offered you a burger, would you NOT be surprised and remember to say thank you?😊

For his 1:15 pm surgery today, Jonah couldn’t eat after 3:45 am.  So we brought him a hamburger up to his bedroom.  He just sat up in bed, smiled, took a bite, and said “thank you”.  No confusion or surprise - just like this was completely normal- haha.  

Now we are waiting in the pre-op area, and he keeps asking for Culvers.  Poor guy, it’s going to be a while before he’ll be ready to eat his favorite food😕

Wednesday, January 17, 2024

JONAH'S HEALTH HISTORY, PART TWO

Unfornately the original Health History is getting too long/cumbersome to update on this blogger website so I am going to start a new one.  

Here is the link to the original Health History, from Birth Sept 2010 to Sept 2023

Click HERE for Health History, Part ONE

December 2023

I haven't updated about Jonah's thyroid lately because things are proceeding quite nomally for kiddos with hyPO thyroidism (low thyroid function).  Jonah is considered this because his thyroid had to be removed in 2018 because of hyPER thyroidism or overactive thyroid.  As expected, bloodwork has to be done every 6mths to see if we are at the right dosage.  This will be the case until the boys are done growing and then checks can be done less frequently.

In December 2022, Jonah needed a higher dose because he had gained 20lbs in that past year so we went from 88 mcg to 100 mcg.  June 2023 labs looked great so nothing changed dosage wise.

December 2023 labs were a little weird.  His TSH lab was very low which means the dosage of 100 mcg is too high, however his free T4 was in normal range.  Usually that would be out of range according to how out of range the TSH is.  So the doctor kept Jonah on the 100 mcgs and wanted a retest in 4-6 weeks.

UPDATE: His labs from 1-16-24 show is TSH still low but T4 normal so I'm waiting to hear what the doctor says about changing the dosage. 2nd UPDATE: keep dose as is, no changes.


12-15-23/1-10-24

As indicated in the Part One History, Jonah was referred to ENT because of having strep in Feb 2023, June 2023 and then again in September 2023.

First some explanation of Jonah's ENT history- mainly why did ENT drop out of the picture after Jan 2018 and again Feb 2020?

1. Jonah had a sleep study in Nov 2017 which came back as mild sleep apnea.  He was referred to ENT.  ENT said removing tonsils was up to us because tonsil size was in gray area- not so big that surgery was a definite.  It was decided to try nasal spray (didn't work out because it made Jonah very hyper) and then a sleep diary for 30 days. I confess this sleep diary didn't go anywhere because Jonah's Grave's disease became the focus from 2018 until his thyroid removal surgery in May 2019.  Tonsils didn't really start to become an issue again until Feb 2020 when frequent sinus infections started.  

2. In Feb 2020, Jonah had been frequently sick with sinus infections.  His tonsils were very enlarged.  ENT at that point said having Jonah's tonsils removed was strongly recommended.  It was decided that we would give the latest dose of antibiotics for sinus infection a chance to clear things up and then reassess in May 2020 to see if tonsils were still so enlarged.

3. March 2020 COVID started and Jonah was home from school.

4. In May 2020 when ENT called to set up the follow up appointment, I let them know that Jonah had been terrifically healthy these past few months with no cold or sinus  infection issues.  Because of COVID stuff, it was decided to just put the tonsil surgery question on pause for now.  At this point, no elective surgeries were happening and even  necessary but not urgent surgeries were being put on hold since things were pretty strict about COVID.

5. August 2020 is when Jonah's kidney issues started and frankly his tonsils were the last thing on anyone's mind.  Plus Jonah was on antibiotics for his kidneys from August 2020 until January 2023 so in this mom's opinion, he didn't have any sinus issues maybe because he was under that general protection of antibiotics- my words, not a doctors...

6. Interestingly enough, Jonah got strep in February 2023 right after stopping his kidney antibiotics in Jan 2023, and then as stated previously he got it again in June 2023 and September which led to this 12-15-23 ENT referral- new ENT because our previous ENT has since retired.

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So now at Jonah's 12-15-23 ENT/PA, it was discussed that Jonah's tonsils are enlarged and should probably come out because of the size and the issues with strep. However, because his last sleep study was in 2017 and showed mild sleep apnea, it was prudent for him have another one just to see if tonsils were making his apnea any worse.  At this appointment, I told the doctor that Jonah's snoring did seem the same to less intense over the past 7 years so neither the ENT/PA or myself was real concern sleep apnea would be an issue at this point.

Another issue discussed at the 12-15-23 appointment is a growth that we noticed on Jonah's uvula.  A 1-29-24 appointment was set up with the ENT for him to look at this growth.  ENT/PA thought he would probably want to remove and biopsy it either during tonsil surgery or it's own procedure.

On 12-22-23, Jonah got sick again with strep symptoms.  He tested positive and was put on 10 days of antibiotic, however the urgent care doctor said we should discuss the possibility of Jonah being a strep carrier with our ENT.   When I spoke to the ENT/PA, she indicated Jonah could possibly be a strep carrier meaning he always will have strep present.  The problem with him being symptomatic is we will never know if he actually has active strep or is just testing positive because he's a carrier.  It was decided to give him another 10 day course of antibiotics from his 12-22 round and then test him for strep at his 1-29-24 ENT appointment (if he's showing NO systems) to see if strep still shows up.  

Now on to the 1-10-24 sleep study: it showed Jonah now has SEVERE sleep apnea which came as a surprise to us.

This severe diagnosis now puts Jonah on the fast path for tonsilectomy because there are now 3 reasons for them to be removed: severe sleep apnea (most important reason), enlarged tonsils, and frequent strep.  If it was just for enlarged tonsils and frequent strep, normal scheduling of the surgery is going into May 2024.  Now it's looking like surgery could be in next month or so.  

During surgery the ENT will  do an endoscopy to check Jonah's throat for other obstructions contributing to sleep apnea, remove tonsils and adenoids, remove ear wax, and biopsy the growth.

UPDATE: 

Surgery scheduled for 2-5-24.  Jonah did end up having another case of strep starting 1-15-24.  

He is now on antibiotics until surgery to prevent another case happening before surgery.


1-16-24


Jonah's kidneys continue to look great at his one- year check.  Left kidney is still larger than normal (13.7 instead of 9.79 normal), but urologist thinks this might just be normal for Jonah.

We are going to continue with 2-3 hour bathroom schedule and stay on the meds to help with voiding muscles.

The hope of being fully trained is still on hold at this point because of the upcoming tonsil surgery which could be stressful in itself on Jonah plus doctor feels Jonah needs to mature both physically and cognitively yet before we put any demands on him for full training.

2-5-24

During Jonah's tonsillectomy surgery, the ENT did a nasal endoscopy to see if there were any other issues that might be contributing to Jonah's severe sleep apnea.  He discovered 2 things:

1. The back of Jonah's tongue falls back when Jonah sleeps.  Hopefully with the tonsils out, Jonah's tongue will start to "behave".  Another sleep study in a few months will determine how the tongue is working without tonsils.  Otherwise, when Jonah is a bit older, there is the possibility of a sensor that can be placed in the back of his throat that would help stimulant those muscles to keep the throat in place (similar to how a pacemaker works with the heart).  Right now this surgery is only approved for people 16 years and older.

2. Jonah has unilateral choanal atresia- blockage of his right nostril.  The ENT was very surprised to find this condition.  He doesn't see it very often.  The blockage can be made completely of bone or a combination of bone and soft tissue.  A CT scan is needed to determine the severity of the blockage.  It is a congenital condition which means it is something that did not form correctly in utero.  It is rare, 1 in 7000 births.  Whether this needs to be repaired by surgery will be determined by the CT scan and if there is any improvement when Jonah has another sleep study in a few months.  Since it only affects one nostril, it is possible Jonah would not need to have this fixed if removing the tonsils reduces his sleep apnea.  

Click HERE for article explaining Choanal Atresia  

Click HERE for another article


2-26-24


ENT ordered a sinus CT to confirm his finding of choanal atresia.  

6-18-24


After a few months of recovering from tonsil removal. the ENT recommended another sleep study so it could be determined how much removing the tonsils is helping with the severe sleep apnea.  

This sleep study showed some improvement because of no tonsils.  Jonah went from 32 episodes per hour to 19.  However, anything over 10 episodes in kids is considered severe so Jonah is still considered to be dealing with significant apnea.

This means our next step, according to the ENT, is to repair the blockage in his right nostril which is scheduled for 10-29.  Hopefully this will cause another improvement in Jonah's sleep apnea score.  

I'm guessing another sleep study will be done after healing from that surgery.

Fall 2024


Jonah stopped wearing his knee braces for 2 reasons: they were too small and he was hardly having any incidents of his knee giving out on him and falling. 

10-29-24

Choanal atresia repair surgery was done yesterday.  After Jonah recovers from this surgery, he will have another sleep study to see if this opened airway makes any improvement in his sleep apnea scores. Doctor is thinking there will be some improvement from the score of 19, but it doesn't seem like he is confident Jonah will move out of the severe apnea range even with this repair surgery. 

1-15-25

Jonah had his 2nd post surgery follow up appointment with the ENT doctor today.  Everything looks great!  The choanal atresia repair has remained opened.  

Now the next step for Jonah is to have a sleep study on 3-12-25 to see if this repair surgery improves his sleep apnea score.  His score before the surgery was 19 events per hour.  Doctor says the safe range is 5 and under.  Doctor is concerned that Jonah's floppy throat/tongue muscles will still be a factor in causing sleep apnea. 

1-21-25


Jonah had his one year follow up with the urologist today.  Everything looks great!  In fact Jonah doesn't need to be checked again until January 2027.  What a change from the constant checks we had from August 2020 thru January 2023.  This has been a long road since the emergency surgery in August 2020.  We are very glad we can putting this kidney issue in our rearview mirror.  Jonah has recovered from his severe hydronephrosis of his kidneys.  Praise the Lord!

To insure that he continues to have healthy kidneys, we are continuing with his daily Flomax medicine.  

3-20-25

On 3-12-25, Jonah had a sleep study to follow up on if there was improved after the nasal repair surgery.  

Based on my reading of the results, Jonah's sleep apnea events per hour are down to 6!  He was at 32, then after tonsil removal it dropped to 19.  These numbers still have him as severe sleep apnea.  However, this number of 6 puts him in the moderate category.  So if that is the case, there is a good chance Jonah will not need to have the apnea implant device surgery!  Relief!  

So we are waiting to hear the official word from Jonah's ENT, but we are hopeful his sleep apnea is in the rear view mirror because of the October 2024 nasal repair surgery!

Early April 2025 UPDATE: ENT doctor called: 6.6 is a great improvement.  In fact, Jonah is now below the number that would warrant the implant surgery for sleep apnea (that was above 9).  So no more surgery needed!

However, his age would show that he should be below 5 for safe sleeping purposes.  So ENT will consult with sleep doctors to see what needs to be done in terms of monitoring Jonah's moderate sleep apnea.  Waiting to hear from sleep doctors...

Mid April 2025 UPDATE:
ENT consulted with sleep doctor to see if there was anything that needed to be done to get Jonah down to 5/hour.  Sleep doctor said no interventions needed at this point- she felt comfortable with 6/hour. She did recommended another sleep study in a year to see if Jonah is still in this 6/hour range. 

October 2025

Jonah's labs for his thyroid were in normal range.  No adjustments of med necessary.

 

Sunday, January 14, 2024

TIME TO LAUGH!

I was reminded of a funny clip from a "Saturday Night Live" show, and it made me decide to gather some of my favorite funny moments from different TV shows.  

Time to Laugh!

1. "Carol Burnett Show"

The Dentist


Sorry Game

The Elephant

Went with the Wind

2. "Airplane"
What's your Vector

3. "Seinfeld"
The Reservation

4. "Frasier"
The Iron

5. "Friends"
The Sofa

Leather Pants

6. "Everybody Loves Raymond"
Thanksgiving Turkey

7. “Zootopia “
DMV Sloth

8. "Saturday Night Live"
Cancelling Cable

Prescription Drug Ads

George Washington Dreams



8. "The Middle"- too many funny moments to provide clips.  
Just watch all nine seasons!























 

Friday, January 12, 2024

UNEXPECTED WISDOM ON THE 2nd SNOW DAY OF THE WEEK


Sometimes a nugget of wisdom comes from the most surprising place...
the boys were watching "Kung Fu Panda" this morning, 
and I heard this really cool quote: